Hello, in the round!
Some of you may recall, a couple of weeks back, I was trying to contact Victar about my grandfather Ramon Tossas Escalera, Alcalde de Juana Diaz, who he had curated.
Well, the developments of late are, the merge has been completed and my cousin is now a co- manager of our common great grandfather's profile.
What is disturbing to me, is that although, the processes are completed and all is well, in this branch... for,some reason, I never heard any response or anything at all from Victar (although, I have expressed my concern for his well being as well as, my concern, for his unusual lack of interaction, with me... Although, were collaboration on some things- Puerto Rican, at some point...)
And it would seem, he un- curated, my grandfather's profile... :-/
I am at a loss, for what may have happened or what I may have done or what may have caused such dismay, that Victar, it would seem, has literally cut me off (blocked me. I can no longer follow him or post to,his wall. etc.)
I can not recall ant indication of conflict or static, between us and some might say, I am "hyper sensible" to discrepancies and conflict of any kind... Which is the main reason,,why this concerns me.
Now, all of this has led me to speculate, what the reason behind Victar's cold shouldering me, might be... Please, allow me to give you all some general background on the line he had curated.
Ramon Tossas Escalera was apparently a bitter, tough cookie whom some might describe as a true blue ***hole. (
(Although, I never knew him and never heard much anything about him... Except for a picture my Aunt Ruby, my cousin Lille and my cousin Dolores had mentioned in 2008.)... Until all the cousins began collaborating in Fb, together...about 2011, I have since heard, (no we are not proud, but one must accept the way things were, rewriting history, is not an option.) he had an erratic an treacherous temper... and was known to have whipped a "disobedient slave" in the town square public exhibition of his anger and dismay.
I somehow feel, maybe he is possibly, the reason, for Victar "cutting me off"
The point of my message is, I cannot get out of my head, that there is apparently some sort of conflict or aversion, between Victar to me... and it won't let me rest... not being able to understand why.
And it bothers me... because, I am certain, he's a cousin... (I believe all piertomricans are related, in at least one way, when not multiply.
a. they seemed to make a habit of marrying cousins...
b. It is a pretty small island.
c. I have noticed that even those from Spain... which landed in Venezuela, Chile, Bolivia, Brazil, Peru, Costa Rico, Mexico... find not only, some relationship to each other, but also share common migrational paths, with each other.)
And Victar was my el primero (the One) collaborator/curator, who I had bet all my cards on, to get things things clarified. Not only on my great grandfather's profile, but also, in various other projects: Puerto Rican.
Is there anyone would be willing to maybe just ask Victar, "What happened?", in my case... and just let me know... my conscience cannot find peace, especially, since I don't even know why.
I would so appreciate it.
Sleepless in Sandhausen
xoxoxoxoRenée
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