I wanted to move a conversation over here to post for posterity since it's more relevant to this discussion topic (I think we were jumping back and forth between these two discussion pages). I really love what Lloyd Alfred Doss, Jr. has to say so eloquently, so I'll re-post a bit of that conversation here.
Lloyd Alfred Doss, Jr.
4/5/2018 at 5:20 PM
All of you are looking at this from a "scholarly" viewpoint and as those of you that know me know that I am not a scholar of history or of genealogy. I am but a simple man of Appalachian origins that set out to attempt to prove my family stories of Indian heritage.
I found, as so many others that I grew up with that the Indian Princess story was just that, a story. It was a badge of honor for the "old ones", something for them to pass on to be proud of. A heritage for the simple "hill folk" that are usually cast aside and forgotten. The mystique of it kept us as children totally mesmerized listening to the stories of the "olden days"...
I believe families cling to these stories to keep them from being forgotten. Every kid up and down my holler and about everyone in school believed themselves to be Indian. Forget the Cowboys, in the southwestern corner of WV and eastern KY they all wanted to be Indian. I grew up in Chief Cornstalk country, Princess Aracoma's home, it was their heritage and they all wanted to be a part of it. Shawnee, Mingo, and Cherokee. I have heard the stories my entire life. It was about the love of the wonderful country we lived in and we believed we were passed that love of the country from those NA ancestors.
It wasn't about the truth, the truth is usually found to be pretty boring and uninspiring, especially to children, they told us of honor and respect for Mother Earth, to hunt and fish and respect every bit of it. The proud Indian way of life. Sadly the truth and DNA is destroying much of this. Almost wish I still lived in that simple vacuum of "Ignorance is Bliss" world I grew up in where everyone was Indian and darn proud of it......
Pam Wilson C
4/5/2018 at 10:22 PM
Lloyd, I loved what you had to say in your 5:20 pm post. I totally understand. And those stories and lessons that come with them are totally important to children growing up, especially in the kinds of conditions you mention. I think you explained it really, really well. But it presents us with a challenge--are we on Geni to try to find the "truth" (often boring) or to hang on to the dreams and legends? I think both can co-exist, certainly, and I would never want you and all of your generation to lose that sense of wonder and that source and symbol of your values and identity. At the same time, though, our goal here is to try to document the "truth," the best that we are able. We can write the stories in our About notes as long as we acknowledge, as you have, that they are just stories. Well, not just "just"--as a writer, I want to emphasize how important stories can be. But I'm not sure Geni's tree is the place for that. What you've written is a beautiful piece, a tiny piece, of literature. I hope you'll write more! And maybe sharing it on the discussion lists, and other places on the internet--maybe even start a blog with your reminiscences of growing up in WV/KY. I would love to hear them and read them.
And yes, I'm guilty of being too scholarly, but I come by it naturally. I'm a college professor, though I "come from" country people and mountain people in Virginia and the Carolinas. Maybe too big for my britches, but I've taken the love of history and of place and the land and turned it into the scholarly work I do.
Nice to get to know, sir.
Lloyd Alfred Doss, Jr.
4/6/2018 at 8:21 AM
Thanks Pam. As bad as it may hurt myself and many others, the truth is what we need to post here for future generations. I want to believe we are building a historical document, something that will hopefully survive the ravages of time, unlike the written documents we struggle to find. We need to reflect the facts as best as documentation will allow.
Yes, the stories are the heart of us all, a big part of "who" we are, our soul I believe. They do need documented also, somewhere, sometime also for those future generations to hear.
These stories whether partially true based on generations of oral tradition passed down and embellished a little each time they were told or just plain and simple fabrications create the memories that shape us all.
I truly appreciate your dedication to this site as I do Erica, who has helped me for years and taught me most of what I do on here. I try my best to use both my heart and my brain in the entries I work. Often it is very difficult to let your brain override what your heart wants. What Kathryn has brought to our table, like it or not is what we have needed from the NA perspective for a long time. We are fortunate to have her.
I do believe many of these stories are fact based, though proving it is an entirely different issue. Oral tradition is all that many of these long extinct tribes had. I no longer know exactly which tribe my mother's NA DNA originates from, as the Mary Foreman/Bare link apparently isn't it. I will continue to dig and attempt to find it, I may never figure it out as many others before myself in my family have died trying. Unlike them, I have the "world wide web" access at my fingertips, but that in itself has created many of the problems we are now attempting to fix.
So I am back to what I was taught as a child by these same ancestors I want to prove, "Tread lightly, listen to your peers and be aware of every part of the world that surrounds you". Everything tells part of the story, from the smallest broken twig, the wind direction, the air that you breath. And most of all don't forget to listen to your heart, it will not lie....