I loved Tombi Peck's opinion on Rootsweb:
"Hi Francois,
In my Skoolwoordeboek (Kritzingr & Steyn) there is a similar translation for
'stamvader' i.e. ancestor. It doesn't specify that it is the family Elder.
I think in South Africa it has been custom which has slightly changed the
meaning of stamvader to that which we all recognise.
Now that I've had the classification of the South African reference numbers
explained to me I find it rather untidy.....Why I hear you ask? If you take
just one line and use that to establish your reference number that is
O.K.....then comes the whammy...when you find ancestors who pre-date the
emigration to the Cape they don't have a reference number....
No-one has been able to explain to me to my satisfaction how one slots
oneself in (with reference numbers) when you have more than one family line
to follow
If I understand it correctly then I must use my father's line as my
reference ....that gives us just two in the line as my father was the first
on that side of the family to come to South Africa....what happens then to
all the magnificent history going back many hundreds of years that I've
managed (with the help of many distant cousins) ....this also applies to the
two other English family members who arrived in the Cape in the
1840s....both these lines go back at least two hundred years back in the
U.K.....
In my view EVERY family is as important as each other....I am descended from
5 completely separate 1820 Settler families, 1 Dutch family, and several
French Huguenot families plus two more English Immigrants who arrived after
1820 & my dad who first arrived in South Africa at the age of 11!
My genealogy programme provides some reference numbers (it seemed to get
bored with that some thousands of entries ago) so I completely ignore the
reference numbers!
Best wishes,
Tombi Peck"
http://archiver.rootsweb.ancestry.com/th/read/SOUTH-AFRICA/2010-06/...